THE IMPORTANCE OF PRIORITIZING YOURSELF ON YOUR WEDDING DAY

Engagement Season is upon us and as we meet with couples to discuss their wedding day vision I continue to find I’m giving the same advice over and over again.

YOU DO YOU. be selfish. prioritize you and your partner.

One observation I have made over the years is that many couples tend to become overly concerned with pleasing everyone else instead of focusing on their own happiness on their wedding day. It's understandable to want to make your loved ones feel special and included, but it's crucial to remember that this day is ultimately about you and your partner.

When you think about it, getting married is a significant milestone in your life. It symbolizes the union of two souls, a celebration of love, and the beginning of a new chapter together. This special occasion should be a time where you prioritize your own desires, dreams, and preferences.

Imagine you're standing at the altar, gazing into the eyes of the love of your life, surrounded by friends and family who have gathered to witness your union. It's a moment filled with immense joy, excitement, and anticipation. In that moment, it becomes crystal clear that this is the one day where you have every right to be completely selfish.

On your wedding day, it's essential to embrace the idea of "you do you." This means making choices that truly reflect your personalities, preferences, and style as a couple. Whether it's selecting a unique theme, designing personalized vows, or choosing a venue that holds sentimental value, let your wedding day be a reflection of who you are as a couple.

By prioritizing yourselves on this special day, you create an atmosphere where your loved ones can truly celebrate your love and happiness. It allows them to witness the genuine joy radiating from your hearts, making the entire experience more meaningful and memorable for everyone involved.

Remember, it's not about being selfish in a negative way but rather about honoring yourselves and your commitment to each other. Your wedding day should be a celebration of your love, and by being true to yourselves, you create an authentic and unforgettable experience.

So, embrace the opportunity to be 100% selfish on your wedding day. Trust your instincts, follow your hearts, and make choices that make you happy. This is your moment to shine, and everyone else is there to share in your happiness and support you along the way.